As for alternatives, there are basically only two: ileostomy or continent ileostomy. I suppose you could opt for a diverting ileostomy while you are finishing up treatment for the fistula and these abscesses. That could give your butt a rest while this mess gets healed up. Then maybe one more chance for the pouch before giving up on it. But, that's a fair amount of rigmarole, and perhaps you are just tired of it all...
It sounds like your surgeon and the interventional radiologist did not communicate too well for your surgeon to be suprised by what the radiologist did or didn't do. I did have one of those abscess drains put in via flouroscopy guidance. Kept that thin in for about a month and that abscess did not return. However, that was a presacral cavity abscess, not a rectal tissue abscess.
No wrong choices...
Jan
