Since that post I've fired that neurologist. I think there is hope for pelvic floor pain with physical therapy. Have you discussed this with your urogynecologist? As for my other adhesions I have and still do some self massage when I feel them to try to break them up. I don't know how to explain this in a better way that that but it has helped plus I've found out I do get pouchitis not just IPS as thought before. It's pretty hard to diagnose if it's not active when you have a pouchscope. It was active this summer and confirmed through biopsies.
I know how you feel about surgeries. Never more!