Thank y'all for your kind words. We are both strong and very stubborn (the UC don't stand a chance)
As far as her diet goes we have tweaked it a bit to make it more comfortable for her! No spicy foods, low fiber and not a whole lot of dairy has really helped improve it. Her doctor recently put her on a cortisone enema and we did that last night. She has shown significant changes just from one dose. It's rough but something we will get through. The process is just rough but hoping we find a good regimen soon.