In my female opinion, what makes a couple is much more than sex. Perhaps your wife would like to know that being a couple is more than that. Perhaps this is her way of seeing if there is more to your relationship.quote:sex is what makes a couple, imo
From the female perspective and from the perspective from most males that I've discussed this with, sex isn't what makes a partnership.
Again, I think you could greatly benefit from therapy to help you come to grips with the ED, your wife's comment, and to help your relationship.
kathy