Reply to "Being gay with a j-pouch"

Thanks for the input, Defiant1.

I am awaiting more consultation with surgeons, but I figure J Pouch is the option I'm going to settle on.

I'm open to a relationship after that, but would never kid myself: I won't be sexually compatible with or desirable to a large portion of eligible men and I won't get what I truly want because my heart is on the bottom.

I'm about to turn 40 and have plenty of other concerns and interests. I have usually been single and am comfortable romantically unattached, if not alone. I don't see romance in my cards and I'm okay with that.

Thank you for sharing your story and supporting a boyfriend with this condition.

3/25/1511:50 PM

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